When we are angry, our anger is our very self. To suppress or chase it
away is to suppress or chase away our self. When we are joyful, we are
the joy. When we are angry, we are the anger. When anger is born in us,
we can be aware that the anger is an energy in us, and we can accept
that energy in order to transform it into another kind of energy. When
we have a compost bin filled with organic material which is decomposing
and smelly, we know that we can transform the waste into beautiful
flowers. At first, we may see the compost and the flowers as opposite,
but when we look deeply, we see that the flowers already exist in the
compost, and the compost already exists in the flowers. It only takes a
couple of weeks for a flower to decompose. When a good organic gardner
looks into her compost, she can see that, and she does not feel sad or
disgusted. Instead, she values the rotting material and does not
discriminate against it. It takes only a few months for the compost to
give birth to flowers. We need the insight and non-dual vision of the
organic gardner with regard to our anger. We need not be afraid of it or
reject it. We know that anger can be a kind of compost, and that it is
within its power to give birth to something beautiful. We need anger in
the way the organic gardner needs compost. If we know how to accept our
anger, we already have some peace and joy. Gradually we can transform
anger completely into peace, love, and understanding.
-Thich Nhat Hanh, Peace is Every Step
I highly recommend this book.
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